We have talked about creating our lives instead of letting things happen. We have talked about attracting the things that we want in our lives by being able to visualize what we want. We also need to be able to write the things down that we want. Write them down in present tenses as if you already have what you want. Also, make sure the statements that you write are positive. If you were to say "i am not feeling sad" you would actually be bringing positive energy towards a negative thought, and therefore not making a productive statement of attraction. Instead, you should write "i am feeling happy."
Here is one of my statements:
"i am in love, surrounded by love, filled with love, and loved."